閱報看到一段新聞,哭笑不得,真不知是可笑抑或可悲。
教統局早前宣佈,本年度油尖旺區英中學額將減少 124個,事緣油尖旺區升中人數減少,再加上灣仔區學額減少,以致油尖旺區升中學生不可於統一派位階段報讀灣仔及港島區學校,包括皇仁書院、華仁書院等英中。而在四月廿八日,油尖旺區約三百名家長及小學校長召開大會,「狠批」教統局此一安排,打亂選校部署云云。期間更有家長聲言要抗議,方法計有罷交選校表、提出司法覆核以及遊行等,原來,都是因為教統局此舉令不少家長署心積累之買樓入名校如意算盤打得不夠響(據教統局資料,該區 05學年平均每 2.5人有一英中學位,今年則為 2.6人)。
好人幹起壞事來,往往比壞人更狠,只因自以為在做好事。而這(羊)群家長,因(自以)為是為了子女,做起事上來倒也特別狠。但這又難怪,有家長為令子女入名校,搬了兩次屋,又有家長部署十年,斥資七百萬購入單位,用了這麼多錢,他們一直以為自己是多麼的精明,到頭來原來被人「揾老襯」,耍下賴也是人之常情吧。
當然,教統局在截止報名前一星期在公布此消息,未免是太遲,但看那些家長們,聲言又搞司法覆核又搞遊行等,不是更有問題嗎?我不知道讀這篇文章的人當中有多少是那一類家長,我認為沒有,但我希望有。我希望你們這些家長可以想一想,不入名校是否會令你子女做人抬不起頭?是否會令你子女的前途盡毀?你們可能會喊冤枉,你們為了子女用了那麼多錢,又要搬屋又要報興趣班,但你們有否想過自己子女想要些甚麼?你們就是常想著「我做的一切都是為了子女」,就強行把自己心中所想的「美好人生路」強加於子女身上。可悲的是,主流社會認為成功人仕踏腳石就一定是「名校」,而香港家長中有為數不少者亦抱有此種想法,結果受苦的都是下一代。
早前看新聞時看到一名小六資優女童(三年級考了鋼琴八級那一位),她媽媽因為聽了其他媽媽的說話,認為多一點證書有助升中,「就算不夠多也不能少」(印象中她媽這樣說,印象中我心中也冒了個「小」字),於是幾乎甚麼興趣班也報了,更認為不夠。天賦優資良質予此小女孩,卻又給了一個庸俗愚昧的媽媽給她,真可謂造化弄人。老實說,我也是資優(在小二時被老師選中走去做個甚麼評估,評估完便說我是資優,雖然我不否認在數學方面小弟比一般人有點天份),幸而我娘從未強逼我參加甚麼我不感興趣的興趣班,否則可能真的資優也變蠢了。
香港的教育,其實一直有的都是個結構性問題,根源就在於香港人的思想,無不充滿著投機取巧、手段權謀、成王敗寇(別說我陳腔濫調,我也不想,但事實如此),結果呢,大家都重視結果,不問過程。家長呢,為了令子女入名校,搬三數次屋不成問題,但你阻礙他們子女入名校就有問題,就要抗議!學生呢,為了考試有 A,就去補習學考試技巧,而上堂無需聽書,補習老師受其錢財自要替其消災。
家長都會批評香港的教育是填鴨式教育,卻不去想想問題根源,可能正正就是自己。那些自以為「望子成龍」的家長,你們以為幹甚麼都是為了子女好,但其實,只要你們知道自己沒有智慧,不懂教育,就已經功德無量了。
相關新聞:
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家長聲言罷交選校表
約300名家長昨日與校長召開大會,怒斥教統局的安排,家長踴躍舉手大吐苦水,其他家長不時以掌聲和應。更有家長提議若教統局不讓步,不排除集體罷交選校表,甚至提出司法覆核。油尖旺區議會主席陳文佑更聲言,會向行政長官曾蔭權表達家長不滿。...」
「兒子將升讀中一的李先生說教統局安排倉卒,若家長發動請願遊行,他一定參加﹕『為了兒子入讀好的中學,已搬了兩次屋,現在英中的選擇減少,李國章需引咎辭職。』」
「大角嘴天主教小學校長戴劍輝替特意買油尖旺區樓爭入名校的家長不值。他指有家長嘆稱,現在恍如買了『大陸樓』般不斷貶值,『買錯樓,好似返到家中,突然沒有了4呎』,不知道5年班學生的家長,明年會否又再減少名校選擇,最後『連客廳、廁所都不見』。」
「家長林先生部署10年,斥資700萬元購入九龍區單位,捱過負資產,今年有望送獨子入名校。為表誠意,林先生打算自行分配學位階段及統一派位階段均替兒子報讀皇仁書院,惜『埋門一腳』統一派位卻無緣報讀,如今爭入名校如意算盤打不響,徒嘆奈何。」
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I feel so bad for them, and esp. their children.
I have just got a complaint of a cousin of mine from her primary schoolmate.
They were very close then, but as my cousin went to a semi-famous school (EMI, though), she was rather affected and behaved very nasty, so her friend felt really bad and turned to me to see why she would become like that.
The students from such schools are usually very proud and nasty (sorry to say that, and I hope that I can be an exception), so what's the good of sending your children in???
My unhappy experience in a famous school told me to tell everybody the fakery of this 'myth'.
Seeing this piece of news, my heart aches......
說話小心些
不然又被人西
誰?
我抑或 Frostig?
點解o既?
還不是派位累事
若果完全取消中學派位﹐各小學生全憑一己實力考入心儀的名校﹐家長就不用本末倒置到要搬屋求學位了。有什麼理由要保留支持派位制呢﹖
Oh, my goodness!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How come some people still don't get the point?!?!?!
Those famous schools SUCK! (They are not the grapes which I can't taste, but the grapes I tasted and wanted so much to throw away!)
It is not a matter how the students can get into such schools, but why the parents care so much about forcing their children in! The society is sick! The education system is sick! I am, of course, also sick!
I am sick of it!!! HELP!!!
樓上幾位...
關於小狼君提到畀人“西"呢回事,請參閱:
http://www.inmediahk.net/public/article?item_id=106621&group_id=176
鄙人當時火遮眼,走埋落場強出頭,唔止做0左 “西"人,仲做埋拉登0忝...真係茂利~
:P
so?
有機會讓不同意見的人總是好事, 不過西完拉登完之後, 始終就係各說各話.
其實由於每個人對教育的期望不同, 經常就會有這樣的衝撞.
又:學劵制雖然可能搞到教育變得好市儈, 但另一方面家長/學童也要真正開始為自己的選擇負責, 不能再賴派位/政府政策, 雖然可能對社會的風氣造成衝擊, 但也未免是一個可以考慮的方案
Elite school ROCKS!
Just wanta give another side of the argument. I went to one of the elite school in HK, and I have no regret studied there. (I don't really like the term famous school, famous can imply negatively famous). I was assigned to a band 1 bottom, band 2 top school in the F.1 lottery. My mom somehow got me into one of the toppest boys school in HK. If I didn't studied there, I will definitely be a worse person as I can imagine. Just take a loook at my friends in primary school, I can spot big difference for those got into elite schools and those went to normal schools. If I live in HK, I will defintely send my kid to my mother school by all means.
A Band 1 school is NOT an elite school by default. An elite school is always something more, whether be the tradition, the school culture or the alumni connections.
They SUCK!!!
I know too many horrible 'elite schools' in HK.
Want me to name them and describe to you in what ways and how they suck?
I went to a very top school (academic-wise) and I saw the ugly faces of the 'to-be-successful' classmates. Well, they are really well-trained to be a 'Centralist', true. But go ahead if you want your children to become another f_cking Centralist!!!
I HATE LI KAR-SHING!!! :-P
Really?
Hi Frostig,
I bet we didn't went to the same school :)
Actually none of my good friends (a group of 10) from my secondary school days become a "centralist". All of us, except one, moved overseas. I have cousins studying in international schools in HK. They seems pretty decent compare to traditional elite schools. However, international schools are just the the new elite schools in HK, they are still elite school.
If you lives in HK, where can you send you kid to school? Either the new elite schools or the old elite schools, you gota pick one. I bet you won't want you kid go to any band 2,3 schools in HK. Teacher in those school can't even get the class in order, forget about actually do some teaching.
Elite school prepare the students way better for university overseas. If money permits, every parents in HK should send their kid to universities in US, UK, CA, etc. We all know the value of having your degree from an decent university overseas.
已經發生了的事上帝都救唔番
好憎名校又不幸讀過的人真係好可憐, 身心受損程度睇來真係相當高,起碼講一年或以上,唔知仲要講多幾多次.唔西囉,都話西一次比人quote十次蝕水又蝕章.
NOT ONLY ME......
As a private tutor (sorry, but I HAVE TO survive!), I have seen too many students ruined or at least wasted by the so-called elite schools (or however you call it!!!).
The major reason why their parents had to hire us was that the children HADN'T LEARNT ANYTHING from class in school. The teachers basically don't need to teach, as the students are so intelligent, they and their parents care about their academic results SO MUCH and most of the SO RICH that the students can handle everything at home themselves. Our jobs (yes, we were kind of 'as a team' since each of us teachers taught several subjects only) were to TEACH EVERYTHING.
I don't care however you belittle me. I can tell you that, for sure, you didn't go to the secondary school I went to.
Anyway, those ugly facts are just facts, you don't need to know, and no one needs to know. Those rich parents (living in Kowloon Tong, for sure) knew these truths very well, but just couldn't bare to 'give up' the 'special status' and benefits brought to their children by relating to those names of such 'famous schools'.
P.S. By being a 'Centralist', you don't need to work in Central. Please refer to what 'Centralism' or ' Central Values' mean, thanks!
P.P.S. How poor that you only have ten close friends from your sec. school. It has helped me prove that students in such schools aren't good. If more good classmates and schoolmates you had, I bet you would have had more close friends from there. I feel so sorry for you, although I couldn't make many close friends from my own sec. school also. (Less than half of the close friends I have made during only the MA course which has lasted for a bit more than half a year only.)
FOREVER!!!
That is my OWN experience. I don't find it really strange to talk about it for the rest of my life.
Even if I am to have a biography one day, such bad experiences would be included.
Just for your information. :-)
What is "Central" value
What is Centralism? Can someone please enlighten me?
P.S. Actually I think able to keep 10 good friends over 15 years, still keep in touch with them and see each other every year or two is quite good already. Provided that we scratte all over the world.
Looking at my other friends around me, their group of highschool friends ain't very big either. Just wondering, what's the optimal number of high school friends one should have after 10-15 years?
中環價值
Sorry, I should have typed it in Chinese the whole time, to avoid confusion. :-P
By the way, no time to quote or summarise points, just give you some links, so you can read certain 'discussions' related to it.
If you are away, I do not doubt why you haven't heard of this ex-buzz phrase. But from now on, you should know......
Here you are:
http://jmsc.hku.hk/works/lung04.htm
http://www.inmediahk.net/public/article?item_id=3866&group_id=26
http://www.inmediahk.net/public/article?item_id=35281&group_id=53
Hehee... You can see that I am more relaxed now, thanks to the smoother progress of my papers (in fact, just two of them, but beter than no progress, right? ;-) ). Sorry if I have been too tense and nervous!
咁睇怕我都係西人一個喇
被人西o個位,就算人o地無出聲我都無得唔認喇
一係你做拉登我做扎卡維喇
小弟今年十八,未有咁快做人老豆o既
我諗,如果小朋友識反抗話唔想學o野,斷估係天才喇o卦
至於明校方面,我真係識得人少,唔敢妄下定論
但係我估計,精英主義o個種優越感,再加上愛自己學校,變做排他自大都唔出奇
至於早前睇到有人講某大學o既 Hall好黑暗,關名校事都唔出奇,有無人可以查證o下?
聲明:只係估計,唔好當真
p.s.我就唔會話見到名校生就印象打拆扣o既,個個人都唔同
大家都係西人 / 故事無限重演
在那些把教育視為市場主義投資/機的人眼中,提出教育不是這樣的、家長不應這樣的人,當然是西人。因為這些意見,與他目前所相信的,或所作所為,有衡突嘛!
於是如何不理性的說話,例如「你不是這個身份就無資格說話」的觀點,都蜂湧而出。這就叫做:結果決定論點。或者,先入為主。
當然了,一個自己替仔女強執藥材的家長,怎會這麼容易容許你推翻其做法?威權何在啊?那麼,對住其子女,那些人豈非「蝕晒」?
不要再舉自己經歷了,就算民間記者本來就是鼓勵從自身的經歷、見聞開始來發聲,就算這個經歷如何有共性,都只會被先有結果才有論點的人,以鴕鳥政策矮化作「你自己看不開、身心受創」、「後生就咪咁偏激執著」,扮作自己好清醒的,站在臨時用散沙堆起的高地上。
不破除這種自以為自己多正確、多了解世事、多偉大的家長之做法,只會好像《黑社會》個故事咁,數年後又在下一代的身上重演。
樓上兩層...
你好! 西唔西人, 拉唔拉登, 由佢咯...嘈過就算.
^-^
睇過閣下好耐之前一段講好自由下0既某名校0既0野...冇估錯0既話, 0個間可能係在下0既母校...嘿~
其實 "名校" 呢樣0野, 有辣有唔辣啦. 講真, 其實 "名校" 特別過人0既, 在我睇係或者有0的比較特別:例如話有0的玩得好喪, 有0的就好 academic, 有0的就靜得好緊要 (女校?), 有0的就串到飛起, 眼高於頂. 之但係好多時都走唔出呢幾種 behavioural traits...當一間學校有咁上下歷史, 收0既唔係有錢仔女就係勁人, 其實都計得數出會係咩款. 學校 keep 得好, 0的人唔會出到去招招積積0既, 都仲話 ok; 唔好0既話, 0的人就真係得 "乞人憎" 三個字.
就以我以前讀0個度為例, 我讀0個個年代0的人相信係呢間學校咁多年來最平民化0既一批, 好多人都同我一樣, 係普通公屋人, 0的人串極都唔係好離譜, 一般而言除0左鍾意玩之外都幾平實; 但近年唔知係咪多0左富戶, 響 xanga 0個0的地方八開, 耐唔耐就見到有人因為0的無無謂謂面子0野爭認叻要威而嘈交, 感覺上真係好似招搖0左.
當然, 名校係有好處 - 單係 connections 就已經唔同 (不過我自己係孤僻怪, 用唔著), 此外一0的正面0既 characteristics, 好似活躍, 主動, 再加上學校0既歷史同聲譽, 好多時都會形成0左一種 esprit de corps, 0的人會好有歸屬感, 有少少似人0地認同鄉, 認軍中同袍咁. 當然, 呢種團體認同有時亦會變成傲慢或排他性...就好似我母校年年響灣仔同 "出乎其類" 0個間互插咁, 正係例子. 好與唔好, 我都唔敢講.
不過始終香港地先認錢, 再睇朵, 後認人, 大人如是, 細路如是. 就算唔係靠讀名校飛黃騰達, 單係 "一日名校, 終身撻朵" (我自己都好 pk, 不時咁做), 出去行走江湖四圍認校友認同年, 都已經夠晒受用. 換句話講, 讀名校唔係市儈就假0既...係差在個學生自己有冇響呢個前提底下讀壞品0者. 以我0的舊同學計, 又唔係好多真係咁衰, 至於我呢0的就壞0左一半啦 (因為冇發達, 發0左可能衰格到十足十), 但宜家呢輩就...難講咯. 之但係亦唔賴得晒學校 - 呢0的0野, 學生本人有責, 家長亦有責. 真係會讀名校讀到衰格0既, 籠統講句, 各方齊打五十大板啦...
'讀名校唔係市儈就假0既'
Haha. Isn't that bad enough?
At least, that is bad enough for me.
And, I know many people like to tell people which school they studied in (撻朵), that's one of the reasons why I am never willing to tell the others which sec. school I have wasted my precious 5 years in (in addition to the fact that I am so ashamed of having studied there).
*SIGH*
Missing the point
No one ask you to like "elite" school, and for the few who have studied in elite schools and 'hated' it, I would say "tough!", as you have already benefited from being a graduated of an elite school, whether you like it or not.
I would say the EMB is at fault here, they shouldn't change policy right before the school selection period.
Now, I would expect those elited school graduates to say why it would not matter.
Really?
I would also speculate that many of these parents who really want their children to go to the elite schools were not elite schools gradates themselves. They have already 'suffered' the unfair system of being sent to an average school, with an average teacher, not much resources and either work extra hard to go to university, or didn't go to university until they could pay for really expensive overseas university courses in Hong Kong.
They know that there are "advantage" to go to elite schools, and that is why they tried so hard.
For them to be insulted by those who have already benefited from this system is not only unfair, and really uncall for.
The path of a student life started from an elite schools, having a better chance to go to an elite secondary school and then enter university, got a degree or two, before entering the workforce competing for the top 30% jobs do not sound bad at all. Especially when you compare to those who go to a band 2-3 school, try again to go to band 1 school when go to secondary school, if not successful, try to enter university when their own teachers would not encourage you to keep your hopes up. It is not hard to see which path is tougher.
I am on the side of parents who try to give the best possible chance for their children.
And I would try not to look down on those "elite" graduates, who after getting all the benefit from being an elite graduate, try to insult others who try to get the same benefits they have enjoyed.
I am insulted!!!
That is exactly the problem. I wasted my time there, feeling so miserable, trying to help the others not geeting the same horrible experiences, and telling people that this is not what 'school' should be like, and you insist that I have benefited from it?!?!?!?!?!?!
B_llsh_t!!!
How about a girl who has been raped telling other girls not to go out alone in too quiet areas? 'Oh! You have already benefited from the sex you gained and now complaining about it?' Huh? Would that be what you say?!
RIDICULOUS!!!
What you said is insulting to all the rape survivors
Who is ridiculous here?
Oh please! One who have benefited from being graduated from elite schools and go on to get university education (plus overseas higher education experience) comparing that 'experienc' with women who have suffered violence of rape is just plain insulting to all rape survivors.
How dare you to compare your advantaged life with those who have suffered violence of rape?
YOu are only a victim of your own personal drama (and I would not try to judge it as stupid, ridiculous), has nothing to compare to women who have suffered real violence of rape.
Of course, talking to an elite graduate who is too wrapped up to her personal drama is a waste of my time.
My advise... I think you should come to the realization on how pathetic you sound. Now go cry me a river on how "horrible" is it for you to be benefited from a system that favored elite school graduate like yourself.
I see.
Thanks Frostig.
Centralism is just the localized version of neo-classical economy, to be exact, it is just the Chicago School.
It is wired that we you say Centralism, I sort of look down on the concept. Now after realizing it is the Chicago School, I see nothing wrong with it. Maybe the name really matters. Can this apply to the school name as well?
柒牌
注定一生柒, 藝術冇樣精!
'既然無法反抗強姦﹐不如享受被強姦過程'
這'名句'﹐不會沒聽過吧﹖
現在﹐不是一樣嗎﹖沒有顧及我的親身感受﹐不管我身心受折磨﹐受傷害﹐而且在在不願回想﹐竟還有人說我是'既得利益者'。
OK 啦﹐'"享受"了過程還埋怨'﹐不是跟那名句同一調子嗎﹖
不要再'屈'我了﹗我要希望香港將來的主人翁不好﹐希望下一代不好﹐希望香港不好﹐真的會讓我帶來那麼強的滿足感嗎﹖這真的是我想見的嗎﹖ 如果你有用'心'看看﹐就知道我是hard core 的'愛港主義者'﹐連這種'用心'都被你看得出來﹐我還能說甚麼﹖﹗
'名'
這很funny。 又是'名'的問題。多少人誤進名校也是'名氣'所累......
知道的了﹐你那家是出了名'寸'的有錢男校嘛﹐懂了。所以﹐我沒說錯﹐講到尾你們一幫'以讀名校(還要是寸爆名校)為榮'的好同學就是認同'中環價值'﹐不管你喜歡叫它甚麼名字。
反正﹐我就是說中了。'名'﹐真的那麼重要嗎﹖
不幸言中﹐不代表我高興。這﹐不只是我的痛苦﹐更是香港的悲哀。
重點
其實﹐對我來說﹐自己的經驗跟所見所聞不是重點。
我覺得﹐最重要﹐大家都需要知道的﹐理解的﹐是'學校好不好跟出名不出名沒有直接關係'﹐也就是說﹐有名的學校不代表好﹐好學校不等如名校。
另外﹐坦白講﹐從身旁一眾人的經驗看﹐事實就是名校大部分比較不好﹐例如師生關係比較功利﹐德育教育不好(簡直是輕視)﹐老師比較懶(教學上﹐行政上不得而知)﹐壓力太大﹐同學間惡性競爭﹐(比較有錢的名校)看不起人﹐不懂民間疾苦﹐自以為是﹐等等等等。當然﹐太差(bottom 10%, for example) 的學校裏同學們的學習氣氛不好也會是影響教育成效的因素。(By the way, 我沒有說成積最差的學校才好呀﹐對不對﹖﹗)
(坦白說﹐實際例子我知道很多﹐不只是一﹐兩所學校獨有的。可是﹐真的不想公開﹐因為我不是想攻擊任何學校﹐只是以事論事。如果真的非常有興趣知道﹐又有一定(合理的)原因(例如﹐為孩子或朋友或自己選校)﹐歡迎用私人訊息查問。)
Frostig 算啦
世界上總有些人感到自己的出身、信仰、價值觀被否定,當然會維護。但急於維護時,許多荒謬的邏輯,如「既然無法反抗強姦﹐不如享受被強姦過程」一類,就會出動。
同時,不論別人如何指出有問題,總會把問題轉化,轉化到在自我感覺上是覺得沒問題的。
各位稍安毋躁...
其實先前都提過,讀名校有辣有唔辣。睇0左上面幾位爭執0既內容,我諗再響度補充少少,希望可以幫手解局啦。
名校好唔好,其實在乎個人對 “教育"呢樣0野0既觀念。以前讀 dip ed,講 philosophical foundation of education,都有成 10 種 approach 以上。如果用擴闊0左0既功利主義睇 (將 "utility" expand 到人脈、某0的符合社會上層 demand/taste 0既行為或知識,甚至係單純0既 high-intensity drilling),咁讀名校的確係好。香港社會睇教育,好多時不離 “錢" 同 “前途" 兩個字 - 響咁0既情形下,讀名校係0岩0既:因為咁做可以幫你搵食,甚至幫你發達。或者退一步講,成日勤操猛練 (我小學0個陣係咁),令受得住 (呢三隻字好緊要) 0既學生可以有比較紮實0既硬知識/能力根基,可以容易0的應付個 “考試-升學-搵`好'工"制度,對家長同學生都未嘗唔係一件好事 - as long as 個 aim 係搵食同 “向上爬" 0既話。
之但係,頭先都提到,呢種只係其中一隻睇教育0既觀點。如果係 humanistic、moralist 0個0的又點?以香港0既名校0黎睇,真係好難講。撻朵、串人、白鴿眼呢0的,差唔多係老生常談。Frostig 君雖然講起就激動,好似好得人驚咁,但我個人0既經驗話我知,Frostig 君0既反應其實好正常 - 因為我讀名校咁多年,佢受過0既氣我都受過。以下講講自己0既經歷,當係解畫...
石硤尾有間個教堂好好好大0既小學,係私校0黎0既,多年來佢0地0既精英班,都唔知送0左幾多男仔入 “九華"、“出類",女0既就入 “紅磚屋"、“勝咩LI"。我當年由幼稚園到小一讀另一間學校,因為政府買位問題轉入呢間大教堂讀小二,自此就過0左五年0既非人生活。
呢間學校係私校,讀0既人有0的當然係有錢人,放學有 Benz 接;但計實有唔少只係中產:講真,大富貴0既都唔想仔女響石硤尾街市出入。Anyway,呢間學校對學生0既管治方針,就係 1) 出口傷人冇所謂,至緊要唔講粗口唔打人; 2)成績好,有 leeway;3) 有錢0既,冇人郁; 4)領導人話乜就乜,唔好阿之阿左。咁呢0的0野同我0既遭遇有咩關係呢?
首先,我自己0個陣係窮0既 (宜家都係),仲要係窮到出面,用0既0野好多時係國貨平0野,再加埋自己平日都幾寒酸 and 唔多企理,所以就成為大眾排斥同玩0既目標,受閒氣同食飯冇分別 - 試過一次美勞堂要用毛筆墨汁同宣紙,我拎0左枝國產 “飛馬牌墨汁"同一卷普通宣紙,隔籬條友用0既係日本墨汁同月宮殿紙,睇見就指住我0的0野話:“你0的墨汁咁臭0既?你0的咩紙0黎0架?乜你窮到冇錢買0的人用0既0野呀?"我又冇錢,0個陣又唔係成績好,加埋個底又花,唯有硬食。
咁好0勒,點解話個底花呢?又要講返間0野0既教學方法:一個字 - 谷。功課勁多,課本亦多,0個陣年紀細,總會不時漏0野或唔記得做。咁冇0野交,就會畀人用紅筆寫手冊,返到屋企自然會畀家長煩啦。響多次見紅之後,我試過忍唔住撕手冊、擦紅字,唔花底就有鬼。而且早期轉去唔適應大 workload,試過響班度考尾二,就更加係黑五類中堅分子0勒。後來最嚴重更試過頂唔順大量0既暑期作業,做0左四分一就返學,結果當然係留堂一星期執掂0的屎啦 - 呢件係小四升小五0既事。之後自覺要唔畀人恰,就唯有靠成績撻人,所以谷起小宇宙第八感,響小五小六呢兩年一躍成為有資格企 stage 拎獎狀同埋畀學校 sponsor 去考九華0既所謂 “高手"。到0左0個陣,雖然我個朵都仲係好臭,之但係話晒都升到去 “惡貫滿盈"段延慶0既 level,四圍0的人都開始畀返兩分薄面。
當然講到尾都係 "black-sheep",黑道中人,0的 “白道"始終係睇唔上眼0既。我自己個人又衰,獨家村,畀人整得幾下就更加自閉,鍾意睇書睇馬多過睇人,所以都明白到,間學校其實係名利場:有錢0既有招搖有謙厚,中產就急不及待充大頭鬼,嘩啦嘩0拿扮航母,一唔係就靠黐,逢 weekend 就跟有兩錢0個0的去呢度玩0個度玩,玩完星期一就返去或有心或冇意咁晒命。窮鬼如我,如果得罪0左有錢0既,就可以 “難堪"到無輪:小六0個陣同某個女同學交情唔錯,點知惹到 “白道十大高手"(即係十大成績最好0既`乖'學生)其中一個眼紅,“擺大壽"0個陣全班 44 人叫0左 42 個,得我同考包尾0個位冇收 “英雄帖",等到0的人玩完玩罷星期一交埋功課放埋學我先知。當然,咁樣其實都係一種榮譽0黎:做到人0地眼中釘,都唔係一件易事 - 桓溫所講0既 “遺臭萬年",都唔錯0丫,係咪?
上述係一個 mini-香港0既 laissez-faire 式生活,“政府"係唔會理0既。當然,要理都冇咩好理 - 幾時見到李嘉誠會畀人做?0的 “中產"呢,三句唔埋兩句又會大喊十,你同佢唔同路佢就話你野蠻,叫你收皮。至於政府又會有0的咩做呢?打壓傳媒囉。去到小五六0個陣,一來自己有少少江湖地位,二來0的同學有0的都 mature 0左有品0左,生活都比較好,而0的同學有時都會唔錯,發起0的有益大眾0既搞作。小六0個陣有兩幫人,各自發起搞微型報紙,有 IQ 題、四格漫畫、打機心得、文字遊戲之類咁。呢0的0野聽落幾好,係咪?我冇份搞,不過都好支持。點知兩份同時出0左一期,就畀學校喝停,咩原因都冇。我呢0的黑底開0既,又冇咩力好出,都係唯有響週記度寫千幾字鬧學校算數。
Then other than 打壓傳媒,又仲有咩筍0野呢?就係打壓弱勢社群0勒。上文提到,小弟自從榮陞黑道二號人物 (第一號人物考全級第八,我考第十一)之後,學校有幫我報考九華。衰在0個陣填父母職業,我照實寫我老頭係工人 - office 0個邊即刻多多聲氣又推又托,結果我阿媽嬲起上0黎,索性撒回申請,唔考就唔考。人窮,原來係考唔得九華0既。此外更明顯0既就係我自己讀精英班,另外有兩班係 non-精英班,level 同出面一般學生差唔多。學校對佢0地呢...不聞不問,天下太平尚算無事就算囉。唔會點理佢0地,由佢0地0架喇。當然,好似我呢0的窮鬼,讀精英班成績好都只係好少少 - 去告狀,tried to solve disputes legally,“法庭"九成唔受理0架。就連有次某條友趁我行開擺個鉛芯筆咀響我個位度,等我一坐落去幾乎絕子絕孫,都唔係有0的咩重罰 - 至少唔使留堂五日;而我多年來畀人兜口兜面噴,都只係試過兩次真係有教師肯出頭去理。成功率同響香港告人欠薪,差唔多啦。
好0勒,summarize 以上0既經驗,就係我響0個間學校犯齊所有天條:第一係窮,第二係 initially unresponsive to high-intensity drilling,第三係衰唔服從領導層,再加埋平日自己不修邊幅同把口倔,人一半自己一半,咁就差唔多衰到貼地咁滯0勒。唯一好處就係,後來逐漸適應佢0地0個種谷法 (0的英文 reader 仲難過我0的 AL 書),都真係打到個底,叫做識字,夠捱到今時今日有啖粥水食。之但係除此之外,好與唔好,就要靠各位看倌自行判斷0勒;我只知響我阿媽面前話 “唔好",佢會鬧我。嘿~
我唔知 Frostig 君睇完,會唔會覺得係小巫見大巫,亦唔知 XOX 君會唔會覺得雄下小題大做。之不過宜家睇返轉頭,榮辱互見:論德育,不敢恭維;但論教知識,谷學生,又好似真係幾見效,連我呢0的咁0既人都可以谷到叫做有本事讀完大學, 識兩隻字,出0黎搵啖飯食。至於話有冇遺憾,有冇憎恨,有冇後悔,我會咁講:曾幾何時,真係諗起就把幾火,想放火燒山0個隻;但回心一諗,亦有少部分人係好 sensible,對我冇咩0野,又唔係完全咁負面,而且都叫做響0個度操到變0左 literate,唔算係冇得著 - 只係代價似乎太大,連 character 都扭曲埋。好在,到0左宜家,多得咁多年0黎讀歷史當娛樂,學識0左盡量將過去0既0野當皆大歡喜咁睇, cynically 咁笑下就算。所以每次諗起或講起呢0的0野,我會係當白頭宮女話當年咁,講笑咁講。嬲?免喇 - 平日仲多0野煩,唔嬲唔恨咯。
之不過如果有人問我,讀唔讀名校好,我會話:名校,今時唔同往日。當年係學校造人材;今日,係人材/財造學校。就用功利角度講,如果自己谷得應,根本唔使靠名校。講真,響升學條路上面,推你行前0既係成績,唔係學校個朵。我自己係喇叭又點?我響大學0的同學,大把係新市鎮學校0既,1st Hon 都有幾個,叻我九皮。就算畀你入到名校,你都要做到至 top,先至有人睬你。杜汶澤都講過啦,佢響 “出類"0個陣,成績唔係好,學校對佢0地呢堆人不聞不問。換句話講,又用功利角度睇,大家花大錢買碧華花園,買樂信臺,一心送仔女讀喇叭、勝婆,但其實 “名校"又係咪真係有迴天之力呢?未轉直資0既,大家為0左入去都做九萬幾重工夫,使錢以十萬百萬計,轉埋直資0既,又多幾萬銀學費一年。有錢有得玩,冇錢要識飛先有得玩 - 咁樣睇返成本同效益,讀 “名校" 值唔值呢?我個人覺得未必值0勒。
所以呢,如果話讀名校唔好, OK; 話係好,都 OK。都係在乎觀點與角度。退一步亦可以 “現實"0的,用有冇 tangible 0既0野 offer 到呢個角度睇。我睇宜家0既“名校" ,就真睇唔到0的乜。大家又睇到0的乜呢?咁就等大家各自提出0勒。
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笑話
「大角嘴天主教小學校長戴劍輝替特意買油尖旺區樓爭入名校的家長不值。他指有家長嘆稱,現在恍如買了『大陸樓』般不斷貶值,『買錯樓,好似返到家中,突然沒有了4呎』,不知道5年班學生的家長,明年會否又再減少名校選擇,最後『連客廳、廁所都不見』。」
「家長林先生部署10年,斥資700萬元購入九龍區單位,捱過負資產,今年有望送獨子入名校。為表誠意,林先生打算自行分配學位階段及統一派位階段均替兒子報讀皇仁書院,惜『埋門一腳』統一派位卻無緣報讀,如今爭入名校如意算盤打不響,徒嘆奈何。」
唔知買樓送子女入名校的家長, 將買豪宅嘅錢捐一二百萬俾辦學團體, 可唔可以買一個學位呢?
我很proud of 自己間小學
謝謝你的分享﹗本人讀的小學﹐正正就是閣下講的'新市鎮小學'﹐還要是'新的'(當年)那種。
我很愛我的學校(小學)﹐基本上她(我的母校)塑造了我的人格﹐我的人生觀和基本道德價值。又所以﹐我的母校只有一間。謝謝我的小學﹐謝謝那些有教育理想的校長老師們﹗而我的First Hon. (Comptroller 又中﹗) 我更歸功於我的母校對我的栽培﹗
有一點補充﹐Comptroller 說得很對﹐就是現在的名校是靠收生'收得好'來維持﹐是故'名'就是它們的唯一本錢﹐如是者﹐它們更努力做Marketing 收好的學生來保持。基本上﹐是'名學生'造就名校﹐'養'名校﹐不會是名校教好學生。一樣的宗旨﹕'不開名'﹐所以﹐我只能說﹐這類學校太多了﹗現在傻的是﹐那些(不是所有﹐只是大部分的﹐沒頭腦的)家長﹐真的以為不管自己孩子'資質'如何﹐進了名校成積就會好﹐分不清input 和 output 之間的關係。常常'出'(Sorry, 講到生產出來似的:-P) 9A's 10A's 的某學校年年出2﹐3分的會考生(不敢講現在﹐早幾年我還在讀中學的時候﹐名校網之間'收風'特快特強﹐這種'新聞'年年聽﹐已不是新聞)﹐可能就是大家看不到罷了。
說起來﹐由於自己讀的中學沒有小學部﹐不算貴族學校﹐裏面看不起人的情況跟Comptroller 描述的差得遠﹐很多同學都跟我一樣﹐家裏窮的﹐住公屋﹐拿書簿津貼﹐學費減免的﹐所以﹐我比較中肯地﹐也唯有說﹐這學校在名校裏頭已算比較不錯的了。只是它不會教學生做好人﹐不跟你說'平等﹐友愛﹐和平﹐理想......'﹐只有個人追求﹐往上爬﹐自我成就...... 想一想﹐如果真的接受了這一套﹐出來是甚麼人﹖
答案很簡單﹕好人...有限﹗
Self-centered persons usually missed the point
荒謬的邏輯 usually are from those who are too self-centered to think of anyone else but himself or herself.
And I think this poster is exactly this type of persons.
No one denied anyone personal experience, but personal experience is not universal, and is not really useful in any rational discussion.
The point really is, the parents who wished their children to go to a "Band 1 elite school" now would not be able to do so because of a sudden change of policy of the EMB, announced a week before handing in the school selection form.
It really didn't matter (personally) to this irrational poster because the children affected are not her children. If she has children of her own and she "refused" to let her children to go to elite schools, that is her personal choice, affected by her personal experience, and have nothing to do with anyone else.
It is really uncall for to have insulted parents who think it is best to send their children to elite schools, so much so that they would move to the school zone just to have them eligible to enter these schools.
It is just logical to see that the "path" of the elite schools students are comparatively smoother than those who enter ordinary schools. The chance of entering a good secondary schools, facilities in the schools, chance of entering university, are all better for elite school students.
The so-called-suffering for being poor in a rich boy/girl school is understanable. Poor students are being discriminated anyway, and much more so in elite schools where there are higher concentration of rich boys/girls.
But who said there would be all peachy if poor (economically speaking) go to non elite schools? If it is in the wrong district, they may have higher concentration of bad influence simply because of the diverse background of parents (Sorry to say that, but even the EMB realize that many students in certain districts are affected by domestic violence in the home).
Just saying elite schools sucks, or insulting parents who want to send their children to elite schools is just plain ranting. Without really thinking about the advantage the parents could think of by sending their children to elite schools is just unfair.
But this expected from an insulting self-centered persons. Just look at her statement saying students graduated from elite schools as
//好人...有限﹗ //
is just a simple demonstration of her own prejudice and hatred toward anyone who do with elite schools.
BTW, //只有個人追求﹐往上爬﹐自我成就...... 想一想﹐如果真的接受了這一套﹐出來是甚麼人﹖//
The answer should be Hong Kongers, as most Hong Kong people are motivated to climb higher in the social and economic status.
No one said that 'EMB is right'......
That is funny. Has anybody so far said anything like, 'EMB is correct!'???
At least, I think that such a sudden change of policy is not good in this case.
Just, if you refer back to this ARTICLE (not the news story), you should see what the MAIN POINT is. No one cares about what EMB has done wrong again this time, but the sad fact about the parents' repsonses. (In case I interpreted your feeling and opinion wrongly, please correct me, sevenine! Thanks! :-D)
Of course we ALL can see who are self-centred here, no need to say. Haha!
Hoi Dick is right, the feeling of having words stuffed into one's mouth is really VERY uncomfortable......
Now back to the topic
The system of Hong Kong Central allocation system for all children who have reached the age to enter Primary one is divided into 18 districts.
These districts are quite fix and the bureaucratic EMB would not likely to change it.
Now, most of the elite schools are concentrated on the established "rich" districts. Other posters could explain why this is the case by illustrating the historical economic development of Hong Kong.
The original idea of this "school zoning" policy is to reduce the time a young child need to travel to school.
Maybe that would make it easier to understand why parents would have to move to fit into the current school zone system.
There are about 10% of discretionally placement for the school principal to use to accept some of the better students who are not from the same school zone.
That is the basic system of Primary One allocation system.
Like someone who have rudely suggested, it is not really something that we like, and we should change it.
Of course. But that is not done by irrational name calling to the parents or the elite schools or elite school graduates.
More could be done to lobby the chance of the system by at least have the basic understanding on how current system works.
Unfairness of the system also include, discrimination against children with no religious background.
Because of the historical setting up of schools in Hong Kong. A lot of elite schools are church afflicated. So, if parents belong to a particular church and have written letters from the particular chuurch leaders, it is much easier to go into many of the elite schools when compare to students with no religious background.
Asked me again why there are so many middle class Christians in Hong Kong.
Why is all this important?
Resources. Schools resources could varies from having few old computers to have computer room with the latest technology.
One of the elite school I visited have LCD projector and computer in every classroom. Plus DV equipment for school media project like inner school tv.
Let think about it before any more insult to parents who want the "best" for their children.
Please...
Anyone who really want to change the system, there is a serious lack in NGO monitoring of the existing school system in Hong Kong. Anyone want to start one or a least participate in "constructive" discussing (and not just ranting and insults) would be good in righting a wrong.
Name calling, emotional ranting and insults would not be entertained (at least not by me.)
BTW, I know that this article probably aim at the parents who have "wasted" their time in trying to send their children to elite schools. I just could not agree that parents are to blame when they are not the one who created the existing system.
More on that later.
P.S. St.Paul Co-ed
This is the top 'famous school' (in terms of 'local schools', which means 'not int'l schools') in HK, there is not anything to argue about, anyway. (i.e. even if you don't agree, it doesn't affect the validity of the following statements.)
Ok, anyway. I heard that it has become a 'Direct-financed' school (Sorry again, for I don't know whether it is translated like this officially, tell me if I am wrong.) within the past few years. I was SO SO SO shocked when i heard of the amount of annual tuition fee...... It is more than half of the tuition fee of U in HK. So, it is no longer a matter of 'academic results' or 'quality' (in any aspect as you like, again, not my concern here) of the student, but how rich one's family is, if you want to get into a good school.
Of course, Int'l Schools are even more expensive...... The problem is, you have to have money to have choices. Otherwise, 'eat yourself'.
I mean, I have been rather lucky that I grew up in the days when things haven't got so bad, at least it was less unfair. If I were to fight for a place in secondary school now, without money, not many choices left already.
Sometimes, not only the parents, but the system itself is also to be blamed......
SAD!
名校學生人口組成
其實 Frostig 君提到所讀學校0既學生人口組成, 我覺得幾得意: 因為對比返我自己0既經驗0黎講, 睇返名校學生人口組成響呢十幾二十年來0既變化, 或者可以睇到社會0既心態/行為趨勢, 甚至係未來0既社會構成.
我自己 K1 至 P1 讀0個間, 其實係九龍塘0既學校, 計格局比之後0個間小學仲富貴. 出奇0既係, 0的教師幾有愛心同耐性, 而0的同學不論有錢冇錢 (雖然所謂冇錢0既都唔會真係太窮)響行為方面亦好妥當 (除0左見過一個同學, 逢係有人同佢講0野佢就鬧人'死人頭'), 學校氣氛好和諧, 教學上亦唔係鐵腕辣操學生0個隻. 但如果計學生人口, 基本上個 range 都幾 broad, 由少數0既臨屋戶到有錢人都有. 但好出奇咁, 去到之後0個間大教堂正宗名校, 印象中就變成以中產為主, 父母多0既係專業人士, 教師, 或公務員. 而呢一堆人0既仔女, 就通常係最招積0既一群. 我之前提到最見高拜見低踩0既, 最多係呢堆. 反而有0的勁有錢0既, 日常同我呢0的街坊友冇咩分別, 人篤魚蛋佢篤魚蛋, 人坐小巴佢坐小巴, 唔係個個都大鼻晒0野. 呢一點, 我諗同宜家0的名小學好唔同: 單係我呢間小學母校, 宜家0的學生都富貴過以前 - 印象中我讀0個陣, 學校門口接放學0的私家車係多, 但都唔夠宜家0既多 (同埋貴).
至於中學, 就仲明顯. 以喇叭為例, 鄙人當年在校0個陣, 相信係間學校校風最平實0既年代. 唔係話0的人冇錢, 而係普通 lower middle class, 甚至係公屋街坊都大有人在. 開學 apply 車船書簿津貼同學費減免0既, 大概都有 1/6 至 1/5. 綜援戶就好少, 不過每年都有見到. 響門口接放學0既車亦唔係太多, 就算係某0的有錢又有0的招積0既, 最多都只係把口衰少少, 囂少少, 日常都未至話眼高於頂唔理人, 波馬狗吃喝玩樂一樣係跟大圍, 唔見得話有0的乜奢侈浮誇. 老實講, 響喇叭度畀氣我受0既, 反而係少數小學已經同我有牙齒印0既仇家, 其他新相識0既就算話不投機, 都冇咩唔妥. 之但係到0左宜家呢輩, 因為多0左一大棚 "一擲千萬買畢山" 0既家長送0的細路入直屬0既小喇叭, 令到每年一半以上新生來自小喇叭0既大喇叭日益富貴, 響網上面 xanga 睇下0的大喇叭 blogring, 見下0的人講下日常生活, 就知同以前我讀0個陣有幾唔同: 試過見到有人寫話, "weekend 上遊艇玩, 同埋楊 x 成 uncle (某名商人個細佬) 出海..." 真係睇到眼都突埋.
再睇返幾十年以前0既名校, 我會咁講: 學生人口0既經濟程度, 由以前到宜家應該係響 initially start at zero 後, 迅速呈現 reverse bell curve 狀態. 最早期 (19 世紀至 20 世紀戰前)香港有書讀0既, 未必一定係好有錢, 尤其係教會辦學, 好多帶有慈善性質, 0個陣新開0既學校有可能係 serve 貧苦大眾子弟多0的. 但當時正規教育唔普及, 0個0的有受正規教育0既人幾易上位, 成為準/正式專業人士 (以前讀書, 多數都係旨在變 "三師"), 因而0的學校好快就形成0左一班有經濟實力0既校友, 而出面街外有錢0既一群亦會認為令仔女有學識有專業資格, 順便 reach out 去建立專業界別人脈, 幫助家族生意係一件好事, 令到呢0的歷史悠久0既學校迅速上位變成一線名校, 有一大棚有 socio-economic clout 0既人做擁躉, 令學生人口極富貴.
但之後由於貧苦大眾亦對讀書脫貧有0左憧憬, 而呢0的名校又處於擴張期, 要透過快速擴展學生人數以建立規模同聲譽, 因而逐漸開門畀街外0既五湖四海英雄好漢, 有本事0既就可以讀, 學校亦唔 mind 出埋 material support. 跳水皇后個老公阿松就係人辦, 而呢個亦係所謂 "獅子山下" 神話0既開始. 換個角度講, 呢種情形同唐太宗講0個句 "天下英雄入吾彀中" 差唔多: 開一條路畀最具危險性0既社會下層, 等佢0地有得 aspire "朝為田舍郎, 暮登天子堂", 從而逐步收編, 拆彈. 呢段時間, 名校學生0既社經平均值逐漸下降, 但由於讀書始終係會 take away 家庭生產力而且花錢, 而之前建立0既校友/名人/富商支持者依然存在, 所以平均計名校學生都係唔普通得去邊 - "獅子山下" 之所以為 "神話", 亦係因為咁樣. 呢段時間, 大約係上世紀 60-70 年代.
之後到 80-90 年代. 政府強制教育, 派位制度逐漸成型, 香港人處於新制度0既適應期, 未完全學識點去打敗制度, 所以多數都仲係 play by the book, 跟返 basically meritocratic (考學能測驗, 跟成績派位) 0既 system 去升學. 而且由於經濟普遍好景, "上位" 0既壓力冇咁大, 因而各種不擇手段用錢用催谷搏入名校0既風氣雖然存在, 但仲未去到最瘋狂0既程度. 因此響呢段時間, 名校學生0既社經平均值大幅下降: 讀名校0既, 好多都只係成績好, 而未必有錢. 始終, 政府0既派位制度, 大幅沖淡學校收生0既自主權, 因而送0左唔少街坊街里入傳統名校.
但到0左 90 年代中開始, 名校學生又漸趨富貴: 派位同校網制度用耐0左, 家長已經學識點樣走位, 搬區, 催谷, 玩手段 (eg. 入教會, 捐錢, etc.), 因此富裕人家0既優勢再次明顯番, 而回歸後局面急轉直下, 各方對教育質素0既不滿加劇, 而對學生-勞動力質素0既要求又越0黎越高, 教育登時變0左一個 high-stake game, 參與0既人都出盡九牛二虎之力, 務求要成為勝利者. 因此就有0左一個人學九萬幾樣0野0既 "千手觀音", 花千幾萬買畢山一號入碧華0既 "孟母三遷" 出現. 名校學生普遍又再富貴, 理所當然.
如果趨勢唔變, "名校" 0既情形大概會係由兩漢孝廉/秀才, 變做魏晉南北朝九品中正咁..."上品無寒門, 下品無士族". 寒門要上位, 就唯有讀新興0既新市鎮好學校, 用尚算係 meritocratic 0既考試制度上位, 讀個好 degree, 壓返低名校學生0既朵. 好在, 新興好學校上位呢個發展趨勢似乎幾 solid, 各位街坊街里要脫貧, 暫時都仲算係有條路. 當然, 要響職場出人頭地做 elite, 又係另一回事. 呢樣下次再講.
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Who cares to talk about these?
At least sevenine didn't intend to talk about the problems of EMB by postng this article.
No one has ever been interested in discussing about this 'point' at all (under this article, I mean). If somebody misses the main points, somebody can just start some other discussions, but don't expect the others have to follow your lead......
Just open a new thread, see who wants to talk about it here?
Why blamed the parents or the schools?
Again, it is not logical to blame parents who want to give their children a better chance in life by starting them off in elite schools.
Why blamed the parents? They are not the one who set up the system?
Why blamed the schools for having higher tuition?
Again, why some of the school fees are so high when compare to the university tuition?
Because that is how the pie is being share. The HK government have spent a lot of money in footing the bills for university.
The budget for education other than university, mostly go to the fully government funded schools.
The question is not why some of the government sponsored schools are so expensive, the question is why the fully government funded schools are not in the elite schools list?
If the government didn't foot the bills for the adding of resources for some of the government sponsored elite schools, the schools have to find the funding somewhere. And school fees are one of the major sources of funding to relovate the schools, to buy computer equipments or to hire extra teachers for students.
Thinking it in a surperfical level is good for ranting, but that is not much of a discussion.
Hardwares - Only three short points (don't want to waste readers
(1) Hardwares (the facilities, big and luxurious school building, etc.) are not THAT important, as a big and beautiful building doesn't assure you quality education.
(2) Thanks, XOX, you have agreed with me! It is what a waste to dump so much resources into such places! I envy them as well, at the same time thinking that it was ridiculous. (Some of those facilities are not even touched for years!!!)
(3) The secondary school I attended had really bad 'hardwares' (as well as softwares, wahaha!). Small, old school, bad location, not enough classrooms, etc. Still, it was a famous school (or elite school, if you prefer to call it that way). No air-conditioning in hall, thus we were fored to donate money to install it. (See how 'WONDERFUL' this school could be?!) We didn't have overhead projectors in all classrooms, don't mention LCD projector. Of course, facilities have been improving now. But when saying this, ALL the schools are having better facilities nowadays, compared with ages ago. The most unfair point is, the more money a school can get, the more facilities you can buy...... (See? So, the rich schools still gets more.)
But then, after all, I still don't see how the improvement of facilities on general gives the famous schools privileges...... :S
Huh?! No one asked St.Paul Co-ed to Privatise!
The Government didn't force it to change! It WAS government-subsidised before, the whole time......
It was the school's decision to do so. If they charge that high so to stop good students frompoor families from getting in, then, who else should be blamed, if not the school?
Just too funny.
No Frostig, I disagreed with you
I don't consider upgrading school facilities a waste of money. So, no, I don't think I could agree with you.
I just think it is uneven distribution of resources that I found so unfair in the current education budget.
As for the Comtroller, I agreed, that many of the middle class persons have the worst attitude toward the poor. The children are just following what ther parents do, and if their middle class parents didn't do it in the first place.
And I found some of the really rich (blue blood) children much more friendly. But not all, and middle class children, epecially with parents who pretended to be rich a bit odd. (Blue money vs new money)
The development of alumni has the purpose of that. And this development has extended from elite secondary schools to university. It did have advantage before, but the advantage has been dilluted with more universities in Hong Kong.
Really, one could not denied the advantage, even being dilluted, to go to the elite schools. We may laugh at them, but is it fair?
Because we change the system and giving parents some other good alternative, an understanding for these parents is better than insults and condamnation.
Comptroller, there are some funamental differences
Oh, no!!!
I typed so many words but then the server problem clears them all......
Ok, keep it short then. I have said sth like that......
Temporal aspect, of course, should be considered, but the funamental differences between different types of schools should also be noticed. Historically, the sec. schools with linked primary schools accommodate mainly rich students, while there are some 'purer', 'fairer' elite schools (characterised with the lacking of linked p. sch.) which are not so 'elite' in fact, in terms of wealth of families.
However, as the Government wants to talk about 'Dragon' (linking the p. sch. to sec. sch.), it might worsen the situation, I can't tell.
xox: agree with you on the "system equality" issue
Hi XOX~
Again, I would like to emphasize that I'm not extremely in favour of or biased against "elite schools" - though I do not find going to such schools useful. In short, if one manages to have a good time and comes to find that elite schools do generally offer something more, it's alright to hold a favouable view - in fact, I still regard my days in 喇叭 fairly good ones, and that I do have friends who are very decent people from elite schools. But for those who had very negative experience and found the atmosphere choking, it's alright to say "hell go these schools" - I still think the views are very much shaped by personal experience and understanding in such schools, and there's little chance to put things about this topic in a very objective or quantitative (stats don't lie?!) manner.
As for your points, I can actually comprehend them: somehow, it's unfair to bash elite schools across the board - as I've just said, I know quite a number of decent human beings coming from these schools. And they are in every sense middle-class but charitable and sensible individuals. And in fact, even if the overall atmosphere of the elite schools is so negative, it can be regarded as an ill conceived by the general public. So in one sense it may be very harsh to have the schools blasted. But looking it the other way round, the schools do have some role and they are not merely passive takers of what others give. Therefore I would say that the schools do have their share of blame - just that to I myself would try my best to avoid sounding too generalizing and slap certain parties in an across-the-board manner. But in a semi-casual discussion as such, I may have my lapses as well and that my own experience do make me a bit reserved to view elite schools in a more positive light.
And there's one thing I genuinely agree with you: the system equality issue. To be honest, I would say somewhat rashly, "let's face it, most people in HK are somehow greedy and lust for crawling up the socio-economic ladder" (of course, definitely many want to do so not out of greed or vanity, but merely seeking an escape from humiliations). So with this being the basis, it's acceptable and reasonable that everyone rush to send their offsprings to the elite schools. Yet the government, whose interference in the education system should in theory be equalizing the playing field, introduced a system with so many loopholes and backdoors for exploitation. So if we take a step back and call for an equality to be "bad" (ie aggressively pursuing a climb in socio-economic ladder), the ordinary John & Jane Doe are definitely given a raw deal here and this is lamentable. After all, "equal oportuniy" is the very final bottom-line for everyone - it's bad enough to become a showboating depraved thug in an elite school (if this is the case), but it may be worse if even this chance is denied.
Hope you wouldn't mind my way to present it here.
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Where is the new thread?
Hi Frostig,
Where is the new thread?
Sorry to side tracked the discussion, but I think I figured out the source of difference between our secondary school experience. Since you hated your school so much, I guess you probably won't mind I trash talk SPC. In our circle, we don't consider SPC as a true elite school. Yes, its academic really shines, but that's all. It doesn't provide an all rounded education. There are many old boys in this thread, I am sure they understand the "讀得又玩得" spirit of our school. At least from my school days, I don't see any bad traits of elite schools you had mentioned in my school.
Just like XOX had brought up an interesting observation, the really rich kid in the school acts pretty ok, it is the wanna-be who has attitude problem. Maybe the same analogy can apply to elite schools. The few true elite schools (less than 6-7 in HK) are pretty ok, only the next tier wanna-be elite schools (probably 20 or so) shows those bad traits. The problem is the general public can't tell the difference between real elite schools and those wanna-be elite schools.
New Thread is...
Somebody doesn't want to talk about the parents' attitudes and beliefs at all, nor the qualities of schools, but only the policies of EMB.
Then, I have nothing to do with SPC, so go ahead. (But WHICH SPC you are talking about? There are more than one who share this abbr., if I remember correctly.) Just, I don't like belittling any particular school, as it is a matter of manners, esp. when this is not a private conversation, but a public discussion.
By the way, don't force me to say any bad things about your old school. In our definition, there are around 10, 15 famous schools in HK, neglecting the 'elitist (rich) second grade schools' and the 'regional famous schools'. Of course, there are like 20, 30 schools trying to fight into this 'circle'. Anyway. As proud as some of you are, it doesn't really matter. Those very 'inch' people, as a common quality found in certain cheap 'so-called elite' schools are being teased and laughed at all the time.
From a factual view, St.Paul Co-ed, as the toppest school in HK, is more better at the 'balance' than some other schools. The most obvious one is Cheung Chuk San (Don't know its proper name in English, hope I guessed it correctly), as a newly risen 'academically strong school', their students are nearly officially 'forbidden' to play at all. (They don't et up such a rule, of course. But then you see how frequent and difficult their tests and exams are, you will get what I mean.) And some other schools are too concentrated in keeping their names, as mentioned. Also, from my friends who studied there, they have had quite good experiences and some good teachers.
So, overall St.Paul Co-ed isn't bad, but the worst thing is the high tuition fee now.
(By the way, I have no intention to defend this school, just to state some facts.)
I have no intention revealing which school I studied in, as long as I am pretty glad that I didn't go to some worse ones...... Esp. from what I have seen from the people I know, and now, throughout the discussion. I am glad that I haven't 'gained' such 'qualities' from those schools.
By the way, I should stop here.
Promised to talk about this topic in 人民開咪, so I will leave things as they are and to discuss the problems in details during the programme. As I can phone-in, everybody else are welcomed!
I shouldn't waste my time and effort here as I totally understand that it is useless. I am very busy, in fact.
There are some schools which are only well-known for its long history, but not regarded as in the 'circle'. (The students studying there may not know it.) Anyway, the pride is not only found on a certain group of students, so...... Sorry, I start not to know what I am saying now, as I am really dizzy. Just hope I don't need to face those over-proud nasty people......
Equality issue
It is exactly because of the equality issue that I believed EMB is at fault and not the parents and the schools.
As I have tried to explain (that being blasted by someone who say it is irrelevent) the exisiting system of Primary One allocation.
There are several "types" of elite schools that one could identify.
The few elite schools that do try to provide quality educated, they existence do add value to the overall education of Hong Kong. One may as well argue that it is not necessary to have elite university like Yale or Oxford.
Elite schools that drive on producing good examination takers (good grades) may not be as good in our books, but it did assist a lot of students into going into unviversity with these grades.
Hong Kong People are very pramactic. And by looking at the current job ads, it is quite easy to observe that most job that may lead to a career do require at least an university education.
Times have changed.
Now, not wanting to generalize too much. But the existing education system in Hong Kong is to produce "labor force".
Think about it. The chance of a students from Band 2 schools to go to university is relatively lower than that of a band 1 school.
The education system do produce a lot of secondary school graduates that do not have university degree, that considered "unskilled" labor by the job marker, and taking up the many jobs in the lower wage group.
Now, the Hong Kong government promote "further education" and asking everyone to study in the various continuous learning center (usually extention of university) to improve themselves for the job market.
I'm all for life long learning, but this is not what I have in mind.
Let put it this way. A person with only secondary education, would have to spend another $100,000 to $200,000 (rough estimate) to get a bachelor degree, if they could not fit into the current unversity entrance system.
The current system is unfair to the majority of students who do not following the straight and narrow path. The minority of students get most of the benefit when they go to elite schools (government funding plus school parents financial support may aid the schools in getting the best equipments, hiring more teachers and reduce the teacher students radio) plus the government funding in the university (on an average, half the cost of any university fee is footed by the HK government).
What I'm trying to say is that the current system is unfair. And the parents themselves probably know that it is unfair. That is why they tried so hard to make the situation more favorable to their own children. Why blamed them not playing into the system, when we could not offer them an alternative?
Personally, I do not like or dislike elite schools. I just think it is unfair as well to insult these schools, when they are just the product of the current mess up education system.
邊個先至係荒謬的邏輯
一、
個人經驗不一定universal,但也不一定不是universal。加上有人講佢自己經驗,唔代表佢冇睇過其他人。
唔明呢點,我相信inmedia大部份文都唔駛睇。
好,講universal丫嘛。我舉個例,如果放到漫畫效果更佳。《終身學習:教育改革的46種觀念》裏有幅圖,愛恩斯坦在黑皮上罰抄「我以後不敢再亂諗嘢」,漫畫下的文字是:「如果愛恩斯坦在香港學校裏就讀……」
如果因為有人舉出個人經驗做例,就咬定佢Self-centered、唔universal、not to think of anyone else but himself or herself,呢一種先至係荒謬的邏輯。
二、
家長、教師唔係創建個制度,They are not the one who set up the system,所以就唔應該怪責?
一個制度,除左那個所謂的創建者,還有許多人維護。如果啲人唔維護,個制度可以散、可以變。個制度明明係衰都冇機會改變,維護它的人,原來冇責任?
哦,小圈子選特首個制度,都唔係曾憲梓、鄔維庸創建嘅,They are not the one who set up the system,你點解要責怪佢地?Why blamed them?Why blamed the 選委會?Why blamed the 民建聯?
看!誰是荒謬的邏輯!!
三、
討論的朋友,對,說了不少自身經驗,但當中有許多很實在的問題。似乎有猛叫唔好批評的人,不斷轉化這些問題,有些問題甚至是無視,(企圖) 由得佢在討論論自動消失。
四、
我話明我英文差,成段討論又水蛇春咁長。我冇法睇得晒。但係邊個認為佢地以為好的什麼制度什麼現實,可以凌駕於在教育討論中「學生」(或「前學生」) 這個角度,這種抱持「強姦學生主義」的人,我請佢收皮。我沒說學生角度一定對,但若認為什麼什麼可以凌駕於此者,與奸商認為他們的角度可凌駕前線工人有何異?所以我請佢收皮!!THAT'S ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!
(P.S.如果要跟我討論,請用中文。我英文差兼要趕PROJECT同應付考試,冇時間同大家慢慢磨O的英文)
由教育真諦到市場要求的差異!
求學不是求分數! 很多人聽起來都感驚訝, 連教師也感無能為力, 但當有教育家對你解釋教育的真諦是在於開闊個人心靈的空間時, 而手段是引起學生的自我期待的原動力去自我學習O 如果這是教育的真諦, 那麼求學不是求分數的主張又有何錯失呢!!??
家長望子成龍的心態可說是家長對教育市場的要求, 但是不是客觀的期望就必成事實呢!? 家長望子成龍的心態是可以理解, 這都是主觀的願望, 正如每位家長都會感覺自己的子女聰敏過人, 在未接受教育前都感覺孩子可能是某方面的天才, 但在現實裹恨鐡不成鋼的事實又時有發生!
教統局在事件上可能是太遲通知家長, 而在教育理念與教育政策上的不協調才是引發家長對教統局的長期不滿的宣洩O
但這篇報導未免對家長的主觀期望誇張化!
少少補充
1. Frostig 君提到唔同類別學校有唔同睇法, 呢點明白. 不過之前懶, 冇提埋...嘿~
其實 "名校" 可以有唔同分法: 和尚寺 or 尼姑庵, 定係 co-ed, 係一種分法; 官校 or 教會學校, 又係一種分法. 計返學校級數, 頂級0既少林, 武當, 峨嵋, 次級0既崑崙, 崆峒, 青城, 定係再次0的0既乜鬼海沙派巨鯨幫, 長江三十六連環塢, 又係一種分法.
Frostig 君頭先講到用級數分呢樣, 係會見到個幾得意0既情形: 有 "下院" 分枝 (聯繫/直屬小學是也) 0既 "名門大派", 同0的唔上唔落0既崑崙崆峒, 以及0個0的單靠派位收生鞏固實力0既海沙派巨鯨幫, behavioural trait 係會有唔同. 我兩個妹都讀過算係海沙巨鯨呢個 level 0既學校, 經驗都係好似 Frostig 君講0既咁上下: 只顧操成績, 課外活動冇乜, 管教學生 "懶" 係嚴咁, 力求將自己個 image 谷高一兩個 notch. 呢類半天吊0既 "elite-wannabes", 帶出0既問題又同0的 "名門大派" 唔同. 佢0地有時睇得自己好高 (未必係學生, 可能只係校方), 但0的 "名門大派" 又可能會睇0起佢0地 (記得"倚天" 裡面滅絕師太聽見鄱陽幫有份跟去打明教0個度嘛? 情形有少少似). 呢種各有各串, 新富求認同, 世家大戶鼻高0既情況, 好難話有0的咩好鬧, 不過係幾好笑.
2. 關於 "勝婆" 呢...assume 係麥當勞道間 co-ed 啦. 以我個人多年觀察所得 (他人評論 & 自己親身識得0既勝婆人) 0黎睇, 佢0地絕對稱得上係一線 "名門大派", 不過個 characteristic 有0的特別. 由於係男女校, 體育方面未必 accomodate 到咁多 "勁人", 因此響體育呢瓣佢0地係比較弱. 但體育唔勁就勁第瓣: 音樂同文藝創作都好勁, 尤其係音樂. 所以響 "傳統名校多才多藝" 呢點, 佢0地唔係冇表現, 只係側埋一邊.
3. 張 x x 呢間 "學界修身堂" 比較特別...又唔係教會, 又唔係官校, 以辦學團體計算係 "新發財" 0既 category; 不過計出名, 佢0地又出名0左都幾耐, 話完全係新發財又好似唔多妥. 我有大學同學響0個度出0黎, 評價大約同 Frostig 君講0既差不多 - 學校太 focused on 成績, 有時甚至去到對0個0的成績唔夠好, AL 升唔到0既同學欠缺少少人情味.
當然, 上述都只係道聽途說 or 一家之言, 準確性有幾高就真係唔敢講0勒.
Frostig: 幾時開咪?
幾時開咪講呢個 topic 呀? 或者我都駁入0黎八下~
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Sorry, 小狼﹗
但我跟你'調轉',打中文很慢。
(一) 有人太寸兼自視過高(but then somehow ignorant)﹐跟他講話一句講完'無癮'。完全不放人再眼內﹐如何有話可說﹖
(二) 某張XX中學(Why is it called '學界修身堂' by the way? Sounds VERY funny!)是當年我媽恐嚇我﹐說我不努力讀書就把它填到第一志願的﹐出了名有多久可想而知。(可是﹐它對我來說是'出名'沒人性。Sorry to say that.)(I have got an ex-tuition student studying there, now S.5. He is suffering a lot, and my friend, his current private tutor, is kind of suffering also......)
(三) 我也不知道何時講這題目﹐反正我也不是主持人﹐只是有興趣討論一下而已。ICQ或者phone-in都可以。有了比較確定的資料會告訴你(大家)。
(四) SPC 可以等於 St.Paul Convent, etc. 這就是為甚麼我會問SPC 指那一家學校。我的看法是﹐不清楚人家的叫法最好還是講全名好﹐不要自作聰明。好像﹐雖然我知道Marymount 叫MSS﹐我還是(在非MSS人面前)叫它Marymount﹐以免誤會。
(五) 我沒意思討論'名校'怎麼分類﹐只是想指出﹐通常有直屬小學的(因為小學部都是私立學校﹐在講以前﹐我自己的年代)(現在教改太多太快﹐追不及﹐可能已經不同了﹐不敢肯定)﹐學生比較有錢﹐態度也普遍來說比較怎樣。(大家心中有數﹐無意點得太明。)而且﹐這類學校還是會有'外來生'的﹐他們通常都是最難受(或者說比較難受)的一批。
(六) 如果說﹐'不講道德﹐不講群體﹐不講人性'﹐'只講自己﹐只顧個人﹐只談利益'﹐那竟然就是'香港人'的話......我首先(Sorry!)寧可不認自己是香港人﹐然後﹐還是要說一句公道說話﹐因為那是貶低﹐侮辱了香港人的。我要求道歉﹗
我不知道以教'這種人'出來為己任的學店﹐教育理想何在﹗﹗﹗
(七) (新加的)我常常說的一點﹐總有人有'本事'裝聾作啞'看不見'。好﹐我就再講﹗
Band 1 學校也好﹐英中也好﹐貴族學校也好﹐名校也好﹐國際學校也好......
沒有學校是神仙﹗
還是input & output 的問題﹐你給它一個麥兜﹐它沒法製造一個怪醫秦博士還你。就是這麼簡單。
我說了﹐不讀名校﹐還有別的Band 1 學校可讀﹐EMI 的 CMI 的都有﹐中間還是有好學校的。我自己看見的就不算少(相比壞名校的'多')。Band 2 的好學校還是存在的(唉﹐忘了還有Band 2 的EMI 學校呢﹗雖然我不知道EMI 為甚麼會被當成'一定是好東西'。CMI 的金文泰﹐培正, etc. 不都是有名的好學校嗎﹖)。
還有﹐其實每一區都有不同程度的學校﹐只有適合自己水平的才是對自己來說的好。當然﹐校風﹐老師的熱誠和教育理想﹐學校的教育模式﹐理念跟目標都是考慮的重點。不過﹐說到底﹐就是不要以為人家讀某學校得到好成積﹐你去讀都會一樣。天份﹐努力﹐運氣﹐'一個都不能少'......
好了﹐papers 要緊...... 請請﹗
Re: "學界修身堂"
"修身堂", 玩 gag, 扣 "張 x 珊" 嘛~
嘿嘿~
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Okay, gotcha!
Haha, I see. Thanks!
To Comptroller (SH_T﹗﹗﹗)
I typed so many CHINESE words and the server failed!!!
So, I repeat more simply in English now.
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飛仔學校
在此說說些半題外話.
讀到名校將來未必會飛黃騰達, 不過讀完出到黎爛船都有三根釘. 但入到飛仔學校就.......
貴族學校
昨晚主持人沒有討論的其中一個分類是'貴族名校'跟'平民名校'。這分歧在'一條龍'和'直資學校'出現後更趨明顯。
還有﹐昨天主要講的都是中學﹐沒有另闢時間講講'名'小學的不同分類。